Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts

Monday

God Doesn’t Make Junk


God Doesn’t Make Junk
Ethel Walters

                Always remember that we are the most precious creation of God. Unlike other creatures, we are rational, emotional and spiritual beings. God even entrusted us to take care of the rest of His creations. These are just some of so many reasons why we should be proud of ourselves and have this confidence to live life the way He wanted us to be. In my last blog post, I’ve shown you 4 of the 8 characteristics in boosting your Confidence: Conviction, Possibility, Faith and Strength. Now this is the Part 2 of Norman Vincent Peale’s Confidence, which will be sharing these remaining four qualities:

HARMONY
No one has ever imagined what God has prepared for those who love him. – 1 Corinthians 2:9
                There is no greater victory in life than when you know that you are more than equal to any difficulties that come your way. The philosopher William James said, “Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.” When you are in loving harmony with God, then uncertainty and self-doubt melt away. How can you achieve this happy condition? – By applying creative thinking to unpleasant or defeating circumstances. The first step is to believe that I have what it takes to change them. Then I must humbly surrender myself to God, seeking his wisdom and guidance. Then I must work at the problem, sometimes through pain and suffering. First believe, then surrender, then work. These three actions will combine dynamically to effect positive change.

HUMILITY
Wait for the Lord’s help. Be strong and brave, and wait for the Lord’s help. – Psalm 27:14
                A good friend of mine asked that I talk to his son who was failing out of college. The young man proceeded to tell me at great length what was wrong with his teachers. I never heard of such poor bunch of professors in all my life! Finally I said, “Bill, it seems to me the first thing you must do is get a little humility.” After we prayed about this, Bill looked at me and said, “O.K., I’m getting the message. The fault is all mine.” It is always a good beginning to stop blaming others for your failures. But Bill grew despondent. “I have so many faults,” he moaned.
I brought him a pad and pencil and told him to list on one sheet all his negatives and on another, all his positives. The second sheet would include all the qualities that represented him as he would like to be. When he got his lists done, I asked him to put the first one away. “That’s the old Bill,” I told him. Then I suggested he fold up the positive sheet, keep it handy and read it a dozen times a day
                Few years later, Bill graduated in the top third of his class and got a good job. He still carried the positive sheet in his pocket and consulted it to make sure he was measuring up. He kept the negative one in his desk and, gradually, was crossing out his failures as he overcame them. He said, “Don’t worry I’m not going to get cocky. I know it was God who gave me the strength.” And so God had, but only after Bill had dismissed his negatives and concentrated on his positives.

PARTNERSHIP
He gives strength to those who are tired and more power to those who are weak. – Isaiah 40:29
                Many of us, unhappily, have not done a very good job with the original material God built into us. We see others who we think are more gifted, smarter, better looking and who have had better luck. We doubt our strengths and abilities. Too often self-doubt prevents people from living abundantly.
                If this is your condition, you can change it. Daily say to yourself: “God is now, this very moment, leading me into confident living. He is turning my weakness into strength. He has faith in me.” See yourself as God sees you. Remember he has created you in His image. Everyday picture yourself as a person created in God’s image. Think of God and you joint partners in reaching all the potential that he has already wired into you. Cultivate a sound, humble awareness of the qualities within yourself that make for strength and power. Since God believes in you as your Creator and acts as your full Partner, how can you not succeed?

MODESTY
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. – 1 Corinthians 13:4
                Jesus was born in a stable for a reason. It was God’s choice for his son to be a man of people and to live modestly. Jesus was comfortable among all, but he chose ordinary people to help him deliver the Good News. And what was the central message of this Good News? – Love. Read chapter 13 of Corinthians to learn all the power and qualities of love and, in particular, which is “not proud”.
                There is an inevitable and marvelous connection between modesty and confidence. If you want to live confidently, be modest about your circumstances, no matter how high or low. For the content man “does not brag and is not proud.” And God loves him.


                Just the other day, I saw my friend, Jogab, posted something on his Wall on Facebook saying, “pahinge ng self-esteem.” Well Jogab, I wish you could read this blog, and hope this might help you in a way. These are just some of the secrets in life that can be revealed once you put God in the center of your life. But remember, having too much of something is not good, and I believe this has been a universal thought. Too much intake of a certain medicine can lead you to overdose; too much cholesterol can lead to heart problems; too much liquor can even cause you to vomit; and so forth. We should maintain the sense of control and contentment in ourselves, and remain in constant communication with God.

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies, and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?” – John 11:25-26

Lastly, Confidence in Life is just the same as Confidence in God. Always remember that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the LIFE; therefore, put your confidence not in yourself nor to others, but in God. Confidence is just one of many things God wants us to have, and I dare you to be all you can be.

Testimony: God showed me the way to a confident living.
Life Lesson: You cannot run your world alone.
Godly Passion: Have a sense of Harmony, Humility, Partnership, and Modesty.
Good News: Believers are saved.

Saturday

Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid.


Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid.
-          Basil King

Today was but an ordinary day for me, though I only procrastinated the whole day. Later in the evening, I had a dinner with my relatives at Mano-Mano celebrating the death anniversary of my Uncle Taba. It was great; tons of foods were served and I really enjoyed the company of my cousins. I was like, “Suliiit!” because of the satisfaction brought by foods and laughs. When we got home, I thought of reading this one booklet that I supposedly have read just this morning. It’s a Guideposts booklet by Norman Vincent Peale entitled Confidence. Actually there are lots of Guideposts booklets here; I just decided to randomly pick one to read each day.
Guideposts by Norman Vincent Peale

This one's very inspiring. In fact, it even inspired me to write a blog right now.  It is dedicated to motivate people to achieve their maximum personal and spiritual potential. What made me love this booklet was it shares the author’s experiences in life and delivers the Good News, just like what I do in my blog. Let me share you some of the points depicted from this booklet.


I will be with you. I will not leave you or forget you. – Joshua 1:5

                Since God created you, it is given that he has confidence in you. It has been my experience that people do not break down because they are defeated, but because they think they are. They do not believe in their own possibilities. You need to trust in the abilities that God has given you. Why shouldn’t you believe in yourself? You are a child of God; therefore, you have within you the great powers of God. Remember God’s promise that He will never leave you alone nor forget you. When you truly believe this, you are on your way to confident living. You do not have to fight your battles alone. God is at your side. He will stand by you and protect you for all of your life.

POSSIBILITY
The Lord is my light and the one who saves me. – Psalm 27:1

                Never mind your circumstances. Listen to these lines from the poet, William Wordsworth: “Trailing clouds of glory do we come from God, who is our home.” This means you! You are a child of God, and there is greatness within you. You can be confident that the Lord is the strength of your life. DARE TO BE WHAT GOD CREATED YOU BE. Dare to be what you dream to be. Dare to be the finest you can be. God is your Father, and He has great hopes for you.

FAITH
With God’s power working in us, God can do much, much more than anything we can ask or imagine. – Ephesians 3:20

                You are going to have setbacks and defeats; sometimes, like the stock market, you will have an extended “dip” in your fortunes. Do not let this defeat you. Instead, plant in your mind pictures of accomplishment, achievement and personal fulfillment. Fill your conversations with words of faith and optimism, until faith and positive thinking become a part of your life. Don’t let your down times get the better of you, for good times will surely come. Surrender your discouragement to God and then surrender yourself to Him. Lose yourself to Him, become part of Him. He is strength, and He believes in you. If you have His love in your heart, nothing can defeat you.

STRENGTH
I can do all things through Christ, because he gives me strength. – Philippians 4:13

                I once met a gentleman who told me that he’d heard me preach at a service that changed his life. The verse that carried my visitor from depression to dynamic optimism is: “I can do all things through Christ, because he gives me strength.” When he left the church on that transforming day, he walked up the Fifth Avenue repeating those words. Block after block after block he repeated them. He repeated them on the plane taking him home. And then he lived with them day by day. “This verse,” he told me, “built up my confidence and changed my life.” He found out that the words on the Bible are the truth: the truth about God and truth about man. And the truth in just one Bible verse set this man free. Take these words to heart, and they will do the same for you.

                These are just half of the points I've depicted from the booklet. I will continue remaining half on my next post. For the mean time, let us focus on 4 of the 8 major points emphasized on boosting Confidence in life: Conviction, Possibility, Faith and Strength. As you can see, God showed us everything He can for us to know that He loves us. He promises, stays with us, believes in us, and gives us strength. I believe Confidence is not inherited, and it cannot be learned just by one sitting. It takes time; and with every war that you encounter, have at least 8 of these characteristics in your arsenal and you will never lose. Remember! It must be 8 out of the 8 characteristics in boosting your confidence. Do not settle for less. It is a start.

Testimony: I started believing in Him, and then everything just went right.
Life Lesson: We are God’s most precious creation.
Godly Passion: Believe in Conviction, Faith, Possibilities and Strength.
Good News: Bring joy to the world; Inspire.